“I felt extremely unsafe in my music career in the past,” the singer said.

Willow Smithis putting herself first.

“That’s a really, really good question.

Willow Smith

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I kind of had to come back from the music industry.

She didn’t specify which show, but Fallon was hostingLate Nightwhen that song first dropped, in 2010.

“They saw it like a tantrum.

Taking time for Smith means pressing pause.

“I need to go into a little meditation,” she said.

You’re a grown a– woman.'

… And so I have to retrain my mind.

“Don’t crash down on yourself so hard,” she said.