Literally and figuratively, especially when they go into therapy.
“I’m having feelings about Kate being late again,” he says coldly before addressing Kate.
“You know, you could be on time if you wanted to.

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“Okay, wow!
So now I’m not spending enough time at Jack’s school?
Good to know,” snipes Toby.
“Another secret test about your kids that I didn’t know I was failing.”
“I’m really so tired of this,” says Kate.
“Every day, it’s just a different version of the same fight.
It’s like we are trapped in a hellish version of Groundhog Day.”
Some make it, some don’t.
In your professional opinion, which kind are we?”