Going to a King Princess show as a recently out person of an older age is a surreal experience.

One that, as a teenager, would likely have been the linchpin for a whole new identity.

It makes me interested in whats happening with them.

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Vince Aung

That personality arrives fully formed on her debut albumCheap Queen, out October 25th.

It makes me feel like my production, she says.

For me this [album] is like my child.

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Matt Cowan

69 jersey and the title track, which features oversized sandwiches and blunts.

She also fully committed to some fabulously over-the-top drag-inspired portraiture for the albums cover.

I did a shoot with with my friends Michael Bailey Gates and Kali Kennedy, she says.

Its also something that has helped her own sense of self evolve.

Thats why she finds humor to be an important part in talking about being gay and sharing her experience.

That makes more sense to me than having a womens studies circle.

I wouldnt know what to say!

But dont read her as flippant.

No honey, there are absolutely no rules, she says.

Like, I tend to be at my shows.

There are no restrictions, everyone is fing allowed to be who they want to be there.

Talking to Straus is a consistent breath of fresh air, from her thoughts on MTVsAre You the One?

(Gay people get the opportunity to get drunk and fight each other!)

I think its very hard to not become crazy in this career.

But I also know that I write the lyrics that I love in the songs that I love.

That I dropped my whole heart into [this album].

I find myself losing it sometimes and I remind myself, Bitch you did that in 20 minutes.

Its going to be fine.